 i had the pleasure of attending an event apart last week when they finally made it to dc this was the third time i had atended an event apart conference but i feel like i absorbed the most from this one leave the laptop at home the last two times i attended i brought my laptop and took notes during the presentations sure i learned some things but i think other things slipped by me as i was typing this time i brought a pencil notebook and an ipad that was so graciously given to me as a viget 10th anniversary gift now i realize that not everyone has the luxury of choosing between a laptop and an ipad but i really only used the ipad for checking email and twitter during breaks so i definitely could have gone without that i really enjoyed just sitting absorbing and sporadically jotting down notes when i thought it was necessary youve got the slides available to download so dont feel like you have to write down everything that is being presented to you focus on the speakers i know a feed apart is really cool but do you really want to spend your time on twitter while speakers are presenting try checking a feed apart during the breaks to catch up on what everyone thought about the speaker leave your phone alone and stop checking your email you paid good money for the conference so pay attention stay sober i didnt even make it to the opening night party this year because thursdays are my basketball night but i heard about numerous people who got drunk at the party really people arent we all adults now didnt we pay good money for this conference if you want to go re live your college days dont waste $1000 to do it so go to the party and mingle but please dont get sloppy drunk we really dont want to hear about it the next day of the conference just enjoy yourself you are surrounded by people just like you for two days its fantastic we even had lunch the first day with jason santa maria and jeremy keith how badass is that much thanks goes to zeldman eric meyer for organizing such a fantastic conference and i look forward to going back again next year 